Counter arguments often stem from a belief that only cis-men could really take pleasure from an erotic act performed by a woman who is being paid for a service.
So what happens when female performers use their bodies to perform for the viewing pleasure of other women?
Introducing Lick Events: The Reclaim; a party for womxn, by womxn.
LICK have been hosting parties for the last 3 years. Founded by influencer and model Teddy Edwardes, the party creates an inclusive space for all womxn (including trans womxn and non-binary folk). While it centres the experience of queer womxn, it regularly attracts those who prefer to party in a womxn-only space, regardless of their sexuality.
The Reclaim launched on Saturday 30 March and was hosted by FYEO City Road, London. With plans in the pipeline to unionise the UK stripping industry, it felt like an important time to make room for an event that dismantles the industry’s implicit power dynamics.
In place of the typical cis-male punters was a 700-strong crowd of fierce womxn (the event sold out 48 hours in advance) who took no time in getting the party started.
The stage show opened with a dramatic fire and pole dancing performance, followed up by the appearance of all performers on stage. The 30-womxn show created quite the spectacle with Cardi B’s ‘Money’ setting the scene as the performers did death-defying pole stunts overhead.
Lick events operate with a safe-space policy that includes a ‘zero tolerance approach’ when it comes to abusive behaviour or harassment of any kind.
Most importantly, LICK performers were given complete control over how they chose to work, with some preferring to perform on stage and others performing in private booths to the rear of the stunning venue.
Feeld provided all guests with tipping vouchers (each worth One Lick) for their favourite dancers.