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Friend or Flame Vday Party | Straight Edition

February 14, 2026

8:00pm PST

El Condor, Los Angeles

Friend or Flame is partnering with El Condor for an evening of cute conversation and new connections. Whether you’re looking for a friend, a flame, or something in between, this event is for you. We are celebrating Valentine's Day with a party for all the straight singles of LA. Come dance, connect, and maybe find the love of your life?! Pop up speed dating will be available throughout the night. For this F/F party, we're partnering with Feeld, a dating app for the curious. Feeld is a place for exploring non-conventional relationships with authenticity.

Co-hosted by:Friend or Flame

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Whether you are in the market for a flirty new friend or a scorchin’ hot flame, our premiere singles speed dating event invites you to come spark a connection with us. And remember, it’s going to be lit!

Come bust a move with us!

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