How To

What is a pleasure Dom and how to be one

Our pleasure matters

A roundtable with Feeld’s trans community. 

‘Open House’: What Channel 4's ‘The Great Sex Experiment’ gets wrong and right about polyamory

If a dynamic is going well, it’s likely you’ll want to integrate that relationship into the rest of your life. What’s the best way to handle people who don’t get it?

How to explain polyamory to family and friends

How to identify - and change - your relationship patterns

Threesomes are one of the most common fantasies and we want to help you bridge the gap between fantasy and reality, virtually. Read our tips on finding and organising your virtual threeway on Feeld.

How to find and organise a virtual threeway?

Two women lying together

Feeling joy when your partner has another partner may be a lofty goal for some - but it's perfectly possible if you take it step by step

How to feel compersion

From Ana Kirova, Feeld’s CEO: The Freedom To Be Yourself Is A Right

“This makes us human.” —Ana Kirova

Just how do you start this trickiest of conversations? Dr Zhana advises

How to talk about non-monogamy

What is gender-affirming care?

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The advice I would give my pre-poly self

Exploring polyamory – what I wish I'd known 

What does it mean to be cupioromantic?

What does it mean to be abroromantic?

There are many terms and abbreviations in the consensual non-monogamy community, but one of the more controversial is the OPP — the One Penis Policy. Writer Jacqueline Gualtieri breaks it down for us.

Unpacking the OPP — One Penis Policy

Understanding the Difference Between Cuckold and Threesome 

How do you address the obstacles to a threesome and increase the odds of a mutually pleasurable and fulfilling experience? Introducing Feeld’s first-time threesome guide.

How to have a threesome: A First-Timer's Guide

The Feeld Guide to Femme Rage

Your anger is a catalyst. Unleash it. 

Talk to her: A roundtable of women and femmes 

What does it feel like to be a woman, to be a femme in this moment? We surveyed the Feeld community and the consensus is: it’s complicated.

State of Dating Volume III: Relearning Love

The rise of relationship anarchy in an age of loneliness

Some people think being sex positive means being constantly available and always saying yes to sex. This couldn’t be further from the truth, writes Abby Moss.

What is sex positivity?

From first message to first date, here's how to invite a third to join you the respectful way

Finding your unicorn: how to ethically approach the subject

Veronika Rose shows how dollification can add a level of playfulness and adoration to traditional BDSM activities.

How to Dollify: The Complete Guide

Delete, heart 🧡, edit, and reply directly to specific messages on Feeld.

Express yourself with 4 new chat features

Why controlling what, when and how you know about your partner's other partners is the key to successful open relationships

Design your ideal open relationship: disclosed or Don't-Ask-Don't-Tell (DADT)?

How to communicate your identity in lesbian dating

The Role of Allies in the LGBTQIA+ Community

Lavender marriages—what are they and why are they gaining in popularity again?

The Intersection of Sapiosexuality and Other Forms of Attraction

Exploring the bi-cycle: understanding attraction and identity

The Taming of The Brat: Strategies for Dominants

A Guide to Androgyny

How Self-Partnering, Platonic, and Non-Romantic Connections Enhance Mental Health & Self-Esteem

Dealing with grass is greener syndrome

Judgment, Anxiety & Authenticity: Dating and Mental Health

The Unique Mental Health Challenges Faced by the LGBTQIA+ Community

Vers & Switch: Navigating Flexible Roles in Sex and Dating

Throughout media and culture, an ancient term is making a queer comeback—and it's basically one big lovefest for women.

What does "sapphic" mean?

How to identify queerplatonic attraction in your friendships

How to know if you're demisexual

A Guide to the Different Poly Dynamics

Coping with rejection in the early stages of dating

A Love Letter to Women Loving Women

What is a “Girl’s Girl”?

The Benefits and Challenges of Open Relationships

Navigating Dating as a Closeted Person

Understanding arospec identities—the aromantic spectrum

Latest report highlights the role that digital spaces play in cultivating trust, authenticity, and connection

State of Dating Volume II: Real Intimacy Through Inclusive Community

How to navigate the early stages of dating

A guide to dating for the bi-curious

Ghosting vs. "slow fading": Understanding the differences

The Challenges of being Achellian

A Guide to NSA (No Strings Attached)

Polyamory vs polygamy: What's the difference?

Recognizing red flags in the dating stages

Understanding gynesexuality: Attraction to femininity

What are twinks?

What are femboys?

What are furries?

A guide to flagging

The talking stage: What it is and how to navigate it

A dating guide for recently out lesbians

Why do people ghost—and how can you get over it?

Bisexual vs. pansexual—what's the difference?

A guide to lesbian identities

Why am I only attracted to fictional characters?

The art of bottoming can look many different ways. Discover what it is, how to do it, and other sexual roles you might enjoy—with advice from the experts.

The Feeld Guide to bottoming for all genders

From agender to pangender and demigirl to genderqueer, discover the different non-binary identities in Feeld’s guide

Exploring non-binary identities: Agender and beyond

The shoulder of a woman

We were in our mid and mid-to-late 20s, and trying to learn to do nothing, after dead-ending in our ambitions to do journalism.

Phoenix Goddess Temple

A breakup can be a lot of things, and mean even more. Feeld members reflect on their own interpretations of endings.

My best breakup

Feeld Guides: navigating the difference between arousal, desire, and attraction

Body languages

Because enhanced pleasure is everyone's right - no matter how many people they're sleeping with

How to use sex toys with multiple partners

Dating in a small pool can be tricky. Here’s how to get the most out of Feeld when you’re navigating a limited radius.

How to use Feeld in a rural area

Heteroflexibility is one of many sexuality options available on Feeld. But where did it come from and what does it mean?

What is Heteroflexibility?

Two's a company, three's a group chat. Bring your community together, from platonic connections to group play.

How to use group chats on Feeld

Asexual refers to a person who does not experience sexual attraction.

What is asexuality?

How does our paid-for membership option – Majestic Membership – enhance the Feeld experience? We take a look at some of the ways it works.

How to get the most out of Majestic

When it comes to polyamory, stereotypes can infiltrate our language. Here are some of the common pitfalls to avoid

Six things not to say when dating a polyamorous person

Learn more about how to explore Feeld with a partner.

How do Paired Accounts work on Feeld?

What is Incognito Mode?

A look at the Feeld features designed to give you an extra layer of privacy.

Staying private on Feeld

Introducing screenshot protection for iOS and Android.

What happens on Feeld stays on Feeld

How to use this stellar feature on Feeld.

What are Pings?

Because a 'heyyy' never cut it in the first place

Lola Jean - How to talk to people on Feeld

The first, essential, piece of knowledge for bondage and BDSM is that the road to pleasure has no shortcuts; there is no substitute for time, patience and the intimacy you build on trust.

Bondage Basics: How to tie someone up safely

Open relationships may afford those in them multiple sexual and romantic encounters. But there are still ways in which you can betray a partner. Here's how

Cheating in open relationships: Is it even possible?

Whether you’re new to the Feeld app or a long-time member of the community, these are the foolproof tips for getting the most out of your experience.

How to date on Feeld

Because 'anything goes' no longer goes anywhere

What is open-minded in dating?

Join our new virtual locations to connect with humans from all over the world.

Introducing new cores: Staying at Home, Remote Trios and Fantasy Bunker

By keeping each other safe, we keep each other free.

How Feeld builds a safer, more inclusive space for you, our community

It may be the moment you've all been waiting for - but how do you navigate your partner being out on a date with someone else?

My partner is on a date - help!

Fantasy is not the same as reality. Reality takes a lot of time and planning.

How to know if you're ready for a threesome?

Setting up a profile can be daunting, but this simple guide will help you to present your most authentic self.

How to create a 🔥 Feeld profile

Because it really isn't just a phase.

Six things not to say when dating a bisexual person

From reporting suspicious interactions to taking action against offenders, here's how Feeld keeps the community safe

How we stop scammers from operating on the Feeld app

Profile in need of a refresh? Here are some quick tips to help improve your Feeld experience.

Five minutes to a better Feeld profile

Because acts don't always equal identity

How to explore your sexuality with a man, as a man

For when you don't have the words...

What sexual kinks are and how to talk about them with new partners

If you're a twosome, you might not even be conscious of it - but what do you need to know about your couple privilege and how it affects others?

What is couple privilege?

Healthy relationships thrive when we have clear boundaries. But what does boundary-setting look like when it comes to casual dating?

Setting boundaries for casual dating

Ask Feeld

March 31st marks the Trans Day of Visibility, a day to celebrate trans and non-binary people, amplify their voices and share their stories.

Celebrating Trans Day of Visibility

Trans Visibility

This Women’s Month, we’re celebrating the diverse and powerful experiences of womanhood - past, present, and future

 Celebrating Women, This Month and Every Month

Womans History Month

We’re reveling in queer joy, queer stories, and queer resistance this month and always. Join us—just keep reading. 

Happy Pride, forever and always

Pride Month

It’s Mental Health Awareness month, and we’re here to say, however you’re feeling: you’re correct.

Mental Health Awareness Month

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