How To

How to meet and treat a unicorn

What is fluid bonding, and what can it teach us about mutual care?

Experts on the myths and truths about the menstrual cycle, hormones, and desire

What to know when dating someone who has a period—for those who menstruate, and those who don’t

Hot, not broken: A punk rock guide to perimenopause

BDSM for endometriosis: Can kink help with painful sex?  

The Feeld guide to period sex

A Month on Feeld… while dating according to your menstrual cycle

On menstruation and desire: A roundtable with Feeld members

How to travel with kink gear: for holiday season and beyond

State of Dating Volume III: Relearning Love

The rise of relationship anarchy in an age of loneliness

Latest report highlights the role that digital spaces play in cultivating trust, authenticity, and connection

State of Dating Volume II: Real Intimacy Through Inclusive Community

How to self-test for STIs

A guide to STI testing: Where to find providers, and which types of tests are available?

Why am I only attracted to fictional characters?

What is solo poly? Understanding the concept of solo polyamory

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Have you ever felt like you’re sexually attracted to someone, but not romantically – or vice versa?

Sexual vs Romantic Orientation

Sex can look like many different things when the focus is on pleasure, intimacy, and self-expression.

What is outercourse?

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Demisexuality is a commonly misunderstood sexual orientation – let’s break it down.

What is Demisexuality?

What is a praise kink? Tips, phrases, and how it works

Pangender refers to a person who identifies with a multitude of genders. Learn more about what that means, with help from an expert.

What does it mean to be pangender?

The Unique Mental Health Challenges Faced by the LGBTQIA+ Community

The Feeld guide to consent

The Benefits and Challenges of Open Relationships

Spreading the love—Or, why poly people always have to talk about it

Setting agreements and boundaries in ENM and poly relationships

For relationship anarchists, all connections are equally deserving of love, attention, and autonomy.

Unraveling the Rules: A Guide to Relationship Anarchy

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Both open relationships and polyamory are forms of consensual non-monogamy—but the terms aren't interchangeable. Let's talk about it.

Open relationships, polyamory, non-monogamy: What’s the difference, really?

Navigating the friend zone: Does it really exist?

Judgment, Anxiety & Authenticity: Dating and Mental Health

How to identify - and change - your relationship patterns

How to make consent sexy, according to erotica authors 

Fantasy is not the same as reality. Reality takes a lot of time and planning.

How to know if you're ready for a threesome?

How to communicate aftercare needs: Building stronger connections through open dialogue

Just how do you start this trickiest of conversations? Dr Zhana advises

How to talk about non-monogamy

How Self-Partnering, Platonic, and Non-Romantic Connections Enhance Mental Health & Self-Esteem

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If you love beyond the bounds of social norms, does that mean there are no rules?

How I practice relationship anarchy

Learn more about how to explore Feeld with a partner.

How do Paired Accounts work on Feeld?

Two's a company, three's a group chat. Bring your community together, from platonic connections to group play.

How to use group chats on Feeld

Profile in need of a refresh? Here are some quick tips to help improve your Feeld experience.

Five minutes to a better Feeld profile

Sex School experts Lina Bembe and Anarella Martínez-Madrid answer your questions about threesomes

Feeld × Sex School: Threesomes

Whether you’re asexual, or exploring connections with others who are, learn how to find and build relationships that fulfill you — with help from Feeld’s ace community.

The Feeld Guide to Asexual Dating

Sex parties can appear to be a sexual wild west, but erotic events have structure and etiquette just like any other party.

Feeld Guide: sex party etiquette from Nea Ching

Exploring the bi-cycle: understanding attraction and identity

ENM relationship types and how to choose the right one for you

Is it possible to cheat in a non-monogamous relationship?

It's a divisive topic - but are there hard and fast rules about when you should cut your ex off or remain pals?

Can you be friends with your ex?

Aromanticism and friendships: How to navigate the fine line between romantic and platonic relationships

Aftercare for non-monogamous relationships: Understanding the unique needs of multiple partners

What is he really looking for? Attention.

A (sur)real week on Feeld with Michael the iii

A Guide to the Different Poly Dynamics

A guide to flagging

A guide to dating for the bi-curious

A dating guide for recently out lesbians

Privacy and safety features on Feeld

Pleasure, please: Exploring the art of the pleasing kink

Is having a boyfriend embarrassing now? How to get over relationship cringe

The Feeld guide to prioritizing sexual health and safety

Combatting sextortion together

A guide to HIV: What it is, how it’s passed on, and how to stay healthy

A Week on Feeld with… a man exploring chastity during Locktober

My night oil wrestling with 1000 lesbians

Lingering with the zombies: are resurfaced connections all that bad?

This cuffing season, are we horny for a partner? Or for community?

The Feeld guide to Locktober

Cuffing season: a Feeld roundtable on cold-weather connection

Love Wins(?): A roundtable on 10 years of marriage equality

Biromantic vs. bisexual: What’s the difference and why does it matter?

Hopping With Bunny Michael

Talking to the Creator of All Things Higher Self

The Feeld Guide to Hero Worship

Before Swifties, the BTS Army, and Barbz, there was Lisztomania and bobby-soxers. The inescapable pull of fandom has withstood the test of time for good reason. 

A week on Feeld with…a non-binary lesbian living in London. 

A brand new Feeld Member takes us through their first week of exploring all kinds of connections. 

Know your rights: the criminalization of kink

Social acceptance and legalization are two different things—especially around kink, which remains illegal in much of the world, including the US. 

How to nurture a relationship—and a political movement.

An interview with Dean Spade, author of "Love in a Fcked-Up World: How to Build Relationships, Hook Up, and Raise Hell Together."

Metamour-phosis

Megan Wallace on a new way of thinking about—and giving meaning to—relationships.

The Feeld Guide to “closing” a relationship

There are many road maps to ENM or poly relationships. Somehow, finding your way back to a monogamous relationship is less charted territory. To help, our cartographer Sophie Mackintosh offers direction. 

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Everything’s new, from backend to frontend, plus an entirely novel look and feel. Re-enter the new Feeld. 

Pick up the phone—Feeld is calling. 

Data insights from Feeld dating app

Chart your own course while finding your people: a collection of data that tells a story about Feeld.

We’ve got your number

What do you do when sex hurts, no matter how badly you want it? Leah Solomon comes to terms with the limits of physical intimacy. 

On learning to give my body some grace

Safety is our priority. Learn more about how we’ve updated our Location feature to protect your privacy.

Protecting our Members and their Privacy

Auras

Here's the spot for all the news and details on keeping our community connected.

Everything you need to know about the latest Feeld update

Open relationships can get…expensive. How can we balance emotional dynamics with the financial ones? 

Feeld Guide: The economics of non-monogamy 

Practical, expert-backed advice paired with the special sort of synergy that happens when we come together to talk about relationships, identity, companionship, and boundaries. 

The Feeld Guide to dating while disabled

As will what everyone else wants. In an illuminating and reaffirming report from Feeld and Dr. Justin Lehmiller of the Kinsey Institute, we learn that Gen Z is imagining a new sexual future for all of us.

What you want will surprise you. 

There’s a lot of different ways to connect, and even more ways to be close with people you meet. Feeld members discuss the limitless possibilities for romance in all forms.

Platonic ideal

The author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto talks to Vera Blossom about his adventures in bisexuality.

“True sluts have to plan”: an interview with Zachary Zane

Molly Matalon

The photographer will never kiss and tell…unless it leads to more kissing. 

Faces of Feeld: Molly Matalon

How to make a dating profile (painlessly)

A roundtable conversation on the many different approaches to developing an inclusive, anti-oppressive, and joyful practice.

Talk(ing) Therapy

How do you capture the experience of sex on the page? These writers and editors shed some light on their process.

Roundtable: On sex and writing

Feeld Q&A: Janet Hardy

How does a dating app like Feeld fit into your day-to-day life? We’re taking a closer look at how real humans from our community use Feeld over the course of one week—whether that’s back-to-back dates, verbal foreplay, or a reflective time on one’s own.

A week on Feeld with…a 28-year-old non-binary femme dyke in London.

The author of Moby Dyke speaks to Anna Fitzpatrick about her epic quest to visit the last remaining lesbian bars in the United States.

Feeld Conversations: Krista Burton

Sex School experts Lina Bembe and Anarella Martínez-Madrid answer your questions about navigating consent.

Feeld × Sex School: Consent

Bisexuals are attracted to humans of more than one gender.

What is bisexuality?

Rachel Davies in conversation with Jonathan Lyndon Chase, Tallie Medel, and Zoe Schlacter about creative expression in studios, on stage, and throughout everyday life.

Three non-binary artists discuss their artistic practice

There are many ways to get close to other people. Carly Quellman examines a different perspective on connection.

What is holistic intimacy?

Continuing our new interview series, Esther Godoy tells us about being present in the moment, the allure of heeled clogs, and, of course, her nightstand.

Feeld Interviews: Esther Godoy

Pansexual is defined by attraction that is not limited to or characterised by gender identity, sexual orientation or biological sex.

What is pansexuality?

Here’s how to handle your next Ping.

Pings unlock big adventures

Sexuality isn’t always a fixed part of who we are: it can change throughout our lives. Daisy Jones, editor, writer, and author of All The Things She Said, talks about how her perception of her sexuality changes – and why that’s fine.

I still don't know my sexuality – and that's fine

Whether delving into new perspectives on gender, sexuality, and kink or deepening an existing curiosity, here, you’ll find real stories and expert advice to support and inspire you on your journey, wherever that may lead.