Experiences - In Person

Is This A Date?

July 19, 2025

7:00pm GMT

U7 Lounge, London

Where the pre’s never end and the pressure never starts. Is This A Date? is a Feeld-supported social for queer, poly, and questioning people, and the friends who love them. It’s a space for easy connection, soft landings, and lingering eye contact. This time, we’ve expanded into a bigger venue, which means more room to breathe, meet, and be. We’re starting with a dedicated Social Hour to gently break the ice, followed by an open, quiet space that stays available all night. Come for conversation, calm, or just to exist near good people. Come as you are. Stay as long as you like. Who knows, maybe it is a date.

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Is This A Date? is a new chilled social run by Rachel and Adam for queer and poly people and their friends. It's designed for low-pressure connection and community. With a welcoming Social Hour, quiet spaces, and a chilled atmosphere, it's the perfect place to meet like-minded people and explore intimacy beyond the binary.


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