Experiences - In Person

Friend or Flame Speed Dating | Queer Friend Edition

June 24, 2025

7:00pm PST

Charmed LA, Los Angeles

Come speed date with us. Will you find a friend or flame? This round of F/F is for LGBTQ+ hotties of all orientations of genders and sexualities looking to find new friends or maybe a flirty new flame —whether you’re lesbian, gay, bi, trans, pan, non-binary, genderqueer, or somewhere beautifully in between. Everyone will meet everyone during the speed dating portion of this event.

Co-hosted by:Friend or Flame

Whether you are in the market for a flirty new friend or a scorchin’ hot flame, our premiere singles speed dating event invites you to come spark a connection with us. And remember, it’s going to be lit!

This round of F/F is for queer men, trans men, non-binary folks, and male-aligned hotties looking to ignite the flame. The speed dating portion of the evening will take roughly 45 minutes (and trust us, time incinerates when love sparks!)

For this F/F edition, we're partnering with Feeld, a dating app for the curious. Feeld is a place for exploring non-conventional relationships with authenticity. Feeld is bringing activations that help identify important aspects of relationship dynamics and will be encouraging guests to be their most bold and transparent self.

Combust a move with us on May 15th, 2025 from 7:30p-9:30p.

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