Discovering your kinks with Evie Lupine and Erin Tillman

**** USE CODE: majestic FOR FREE TICKETS AT CHECKOUT **** Burning Thoughts is a speaker series hosted by 'the feels' x Feeld; together we stand for a more curious, high-fidelity relational ecosystem - although we go about creating it in very different ways. This fall, we're bringing together a set of speakers whose ideas live on the razor's edge of modern dating. In this second edition of the series, we'll be in conversation with Ben Sinclair, an actor + writer, who built a persona around his love of pot smoking as the star of the groundbreaking HBO show High Maintenance. Ten years after the show first premiered, he's now (weed) sober, which he depicts in a Substack called 'Low Maintenance.' We'll be in conversation about the awakening that happens inside sobriety, the transformation that becomes possible, and what it means to 'wake up.' This is a social gathering for the Feels and Feeld community — not a play or kink party. This event is 21+.

• September 21, 2026 at 7:30 PM
• The Lighthouse, New York

*** USE CODE: majestic FOR FREE TICKETS AT CHECKOUT *** Burning Thoughts is a speaker series hosted by 'the feels' x Feeld; together we stand for a more curious, high-fidelity relational ecosystem - although we go about creating it in very different ways. This fall, we're bringing together a set of speakers whose ideas live on the razor's edge of modern dating. In this first edition of the series, we'll be in convo with Glynnis MacNicol, a memorist whose latest book, "I'm Mostly Here to Enjoy Myself," depicts her pursuit of pleasure in Paris, and whose previous book, "No One Tells You This," takes on the dimensionality of a decision to remain single as one turns 40. We'll speak into the defiance of norms that comes with eschewing committed, long-term relationships as the standard bearer, trusting one's instincts around what's 'wanted' + what choices become possible in the process. This is a social gathering for the Feels and Feeld community — not a play or kink party. This event is 21+.

• September 8, 2026 at 6:30 PM
• The Lighthouse Campus Brooklyn, NY, New York

Feeld touches down in Brooklyn at The Bush, "A dyke bar for the queers". September 11th, 7pm-Close come join us! Free drink for the first 100 Feeld members 7-8pm, a pie eating contest 11pm, drink specials, great DJs and gifts all night!

• September 11, 2026 at 7:00 PM
• The Bush, New York