Experiences - Virtual

Feeld Forum: How NOT to Dom

April 2, 2024

4:00pm EST

YouTube

Most Feeld Forums are led by experts. This is not one of them. Laugh with us as improv comic Tess Menzies teaches a course on BDSM (she knows nothing about it). Tess will teach you how to spot a faux dom in real life, how to look for red flags, and how to explore safely online. Oh, and she’ll also hand out truly terrible dating advice.

Co-hosted by:Tess Menzies

Our co-host

Tess Menzies is a Los Angeles based comedian and writer, among other things.

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