Photography by Kees de Klein
Our members in Amsterdam have lots to show off: skills, strengths, and stripes, to name just a few. Read on to get to know them better.
Age: 31 / Gender: Male / Orientation: Heterosexual / Desires : Being Dominant, Flirting, Communication, Being a brat tamer, Rough, Kink, Foreplay, Aftercare, Casual, FWB
TARZAN knows how to make connections come easily. It’s in his nature to “connect with anyone,” he says. “I like meeting new people, expanding my knowledge, and returning the favor with them.”
Age: 56 / Gender: Male / Desires: Connection, Dates, Intimacy, Relationship, Monogamy, MMM, Sensual, Kissing, Threeway, Exploration
What should you ask JON on a first date? “Ask me about what excites me, not what annoys me,” he suggests. “Passion is way sexier than cynicism.”
Age: 27 / Gender: Female
ALEX is looking to strike the right balance between “confidence and humility, intelligence and curiosity, silliness and self-awareness.” When it comes to what she finds most attractive, kindness is key: “I’m looking for someone who is, at their core, a kind person; not just with me, but with everyone around them.”
Age: 39 / Gender: Male / Orientation: Pansexual / Desires: BDSM, Exploration, Connection, Fun, ENM, FWB, Casual, GGG, Dates, Communication
Find EVAN in a mosh pit. He’s always looking for live music that gets in touch with the rawest emotions, like when he saw the band Mannequin Pussy: “They spoke out against hate for oppressive systems, and led the crowd in a joint primal scream before kicking off a song and a mosh pit. It was a powerful experience.”
Age: 37 / Gender: Male / Orientation: Straight / Desires: ENM, Poly, GGG, Aftercare, Communication
When MAURIZIO practices drumming, he’s entirely in his body. “I love the physicality of drumming,” he told us. “That feeling when what you’ve mastered flows freely through your hands and feet.”
Age: 33 / Gender: Male / Orientation: Bisexual / Desires: FFM, Casual, Dates, FWB, Aftercare, Being dominant, GGG, MF, Being a brat tamer, Freedomme
“In the past, I’ve compromised out of fear of loss,” reflects BART. He’s been discovering how to be more sincere and forthcoming about what he likes and wants. “I want to be clear so that I can be more connected with the people I truly match with.”
Age: 24 / Gender: Male / Desires: Dates, Flirting, Connection, Intimacy, FWB, Couples, MMM/MMMM, and Poly
Once, VINAY admitted to a fling that he had been tempted to peek through his living room, and was very intrigued to hear that the fling felt the same. “That conversation really piqued my voyeuristic streak.”
Age: 30 / Gender: Female / Desires: threesomes, poly, queer, kink, dom/sub, tantra, watching, unicorn, couples, FFM, MMF, intimacy, casual, friendships, cuddling
