Ruby Rare

Ruby Rare is a sex educator, author, and speaker who’s spent the last decade helping people feel more connected to their bodies, relationships, and desires. Her work centers on shedding shame through inclusive, affirming education that celebrates pleasure and possibility.

She began her career at Brook, the UK’s leading sexual health charity, where she taught RSE in schools and ran a multi-borough condom scheme in London. In 2019, she led Let’s Talk. Period, a national campaign for period equity. Today, Ruby is proud to serve as a Brook ambassador while exploring her own creative projects.

Since starting to document her work on Instagram in 2019, Ruby has built a community drawn to her honest, joyful voice. She’s the author of Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults (2020) and The Non-Monogamy Playbook (2025), hosted E4’s Sex Rated, and co-hosts The Ins and Outs podcast with Megan Barton-Hanson.